I read Dale Carnegy’s How to Stop Worrying And Start Living. It contained many tales of people who suddenly broke a lifetime habit of worrying themselves sick by turning the problem over to God. This gave them a great burst of energy then they used to tackle life’s problems. As far as I could see, God never actually did anything to help anyone out. It was simply the blind faith that nothing terrible would happen that saved the day.
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recommend book⇒How to Stop Worrying And Start Living | ||
| paperback | hardcover | ||
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| ISBN13: | 978-0-671-73335-3 | 978-0-671-50619-3 | |
| ISBN10: | 0-671-73335-4 | 0-671-50619-6 | |
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| published: | 1990-09-15 | ||
| by: | Dale Carnegie | ||
| Written in 1944 in a Horatio Alger style. | |||
I began to wonder if there was a non-Christian equivalent for people who could not possibly swallow the Christian beliefs.
Even when doing something as simple as making an appointment for coffee, Muslims will say "inshallah" (God willing), implying a happy acceptance of God stirring things up to make the appointment impossible. When things go wrong, God wanted it that way. Who are you to argue with God?
Then in the early 1900s Heisenberg came along and discovered that the clockwork universe was only an approximate model of how the universe worked. It was impossible, even in principle, to fully know the initial conditions. Further, at the atomic level, much was completely random, totally unpredictable, and totally uncontrollable. In other words, even in principle, you can’t predict what is going to happen precisely. Free will is still an illusion, but no one can know even principle what precisely is going to happen.
Then chaos theorists discovered that the flapping of a butterfly’s wings in Brazil could affect the weather in Europe. Tiny random effects can create huge macroscopic effects. The world is much less predictable than we thought.
Science has no theory which incorporates free will. Perhaps some day they will, but, for now, science treats it as an illusion or something too slippery to say anything definite about.
Science seems to suggest that our own actions and thoughts naturally flow from previous actions and thoughts, much the way Buddha described 500 years before Christ. Quantum uncertainty and chaos theory also applies to us humans, so we cannot predict with much certainty just what we will do or what will happen to us. Human vanity makes us imagine our powers of prediction are much better than they really are. We then set about tormenting ourselves with worry over all the dreadful things we are absolutely certain will befall us.
Life might be described as like being strapped into a roller coaster that takes off on some unpredictable route always ending in a crash that kills you. Or more gently:
“Life is like stepping into a boat which is about to sail out to sea and sink.”
~ Sukzuki Roshi
“A good supply of resignation is of the first importance in providing for the journey of life.”The Serenity prayer goes like this:
~ Arthur Schopenhaur
“God grant me the serenity to accept the things a cannot change,The version above is a variant from the Alcoholics Anonymous formulation "courage to change the things I can" which suggests you should randomly fool with things that are not broken.
The courage to change the things I must,
And the wisdom to know the difference.”
God is not necessary to benefit from this insight. Just noticing that you are trying to change something that you cannot change, may help you stop wasting effort on it. Just noticing that you are procrastinating a change that has to be made may give you extra motivation to get on with it.
Part of creating a meaningful life is balancing the ideas it ultimately does not matter, and it makes a difference. A million years from now it is unlikely any record of any of us will have survived, yet obviously it matters to us that our loved ones are happy today.
“And we are here as on a darkling plainFor the most part we are caught in a maelstrom with only the feeblest powers to have any effect on the world in general. Only within the narrow sphere of our private lives do we have any illusion of control.
Swept with confused alarms of struggle and flight,
Where ignorant armies clash by night.”
~ Matthew Arnold, Dover Beach
The problem with fatalism is it encourages everyone to give up, even when a tiny effort from everyone could have beneficial effect, e.g. to bring about world peace, end world hunger, or preserve the environment. You have to be like Johnny Appleseed, promiscuously scattering seeds, but not worrying about which ones will sprout. The Hindus express the idea this way, that you should dedicate the karma (fruits of your actions) to God. You should not concern yourself with whether you were successful, only that you performed skillful action. Whether you are successful or not is God’s problem/responsibility.
If you believe every shaving nick was God’s will, it is a bit megalomaniac to think God has nothing better to do than create tiny annoyances for you, as if you were worthy of all that divine time and attention.
The catch 22 is, it seems as though you are probably predestined believe or disbelieve in free will and to choose a defeatist or an activist life philosophy. Part of your predestination was to read this essay, and be gently prodded to the activist track.
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